Monday, February 20, 2012

The Gay Bar: The new place to pick up women?


      Maybe it is just me, but I have noticed a lot more straight girls in the gay bars lately. Also for the few smart straight guys, the gay bar has become the new pick-up joint to meet single women. Why? Because the girls come to dance and have fun with their gay friends, they feel relaxed and can let their hair down. For the straight guys, the gay bar offers young single women who have their guard down. It used to be that any guy I met in a gay bar I could and would assume that he was gay, not anymore. The straight guys have discovered that gay bars are full of young attractive single women.

      The younger generation of straight males are not intimidated by going to a gay bar full of gay men. They can handle being hit on, and simply tell any guy that does that he is straight. But it has brought something new to the dynamic of my gay bar experience, pushy drunk straight girls. Yes, just last week I was standing at the bar with my friend waiting to get a drink when this girl slammed into the back of me, pushed me out of the way, and didn't even say 'excuse me'. I don't mind women in my gay bar, but they should behave themselves.

      Progress has brought straight people to the gay bar. Now, if only they can not turn it into something like a scene out of . What do you think?

1 comment:

  1. I can't agree with you more... There is absolutely no etiquette in the gay bars anymore. Even the young gay boi's are shoving through the crowd. It used to be that you were polite and placed your hand on someone's back as you passed by so they knew you were passing behind them. It was courtesy. You said "Excuse me", "Pardon me", etc. Not anymore it seems.